Have you ever just been walking around your usual spot, and look across the street, thinking "Wow, that guy has such great style!" or "She looks so unique!" Well it's because they have their own, individual style. This quality they were able to build from all the basic elements, they put together in such a way that looks fresh, interesting and "different" from the rest.
So I propose we all try to find that for ourselves. I've been told many times that I beat to my own drum. Some might take that as "why does everyone think I'm weird?" But you know what, people are just noticing something in you they don't see in others. You have something inside you that no one else has, and when you learn to let that amazing characteristic out into the light, someone will see it. When someone takes notice, it's a good thing!
Some of you might think you aren't special, but you are. And as soon as you realize that, so will the rest of the world. The people that become rich and famous, realized they had something powerful inside them. They listened to it, and followed that thing all the way to: The Big Screen, Multi-Platinum Albums, inventing the universe of Star Wars, constructing the Caesar's Palace Hotel, all those Apple products that have taken over the nation, and so much more.
None of the people that did these things, did so without fear or doubt. It's hard to ignore that survival instinct that says "It's too risky, there are so many other, safer routes." If you truly want a safe, stable life of a 9-5 job, a house and a family, that there is nothing wrong with that. As long as that's what you've always wanted for your life. However, if you want the good life, you have to be willing to work for it. It's not just going to come to you by chance. Sometimes, to get that thing you want so badly, you have to give up the fun stuff, and save for your future. Now this isn't to say be a shut-in and never do anything enjoyable. The key word here is moderation. But anyways, I'm getting off topic.
Finding that style that highlights your best features and downplays your less than favored ones takes time, trial and error, and asking for a couple opinions by people you trust can't hurt either. Also, this should be a natural progression, not something you freak out about every day. Just be open to change, and trying new things until you find what works for you. Stop trying to fit into the mold. Some super models look good in what they're wearing, because it was made for their body type, and it looks good on them because their body type flatters the clothing which makes you want to buy it. To be honest, you have to actually try it yourself, instead of assuming it works for you just because it works for someone else.
You know why these people stand out:
This is not because of the lights, or the camera making them look good. These are examples of their own fashion; they rock their style, and effects are secondary. A wise person once told me "You can't take a bad song and make it sound good with effects, you have to start with something good and then you use effects make it sound better."
I can tell you right now, I've dabbled in many different styles, and people have raised an eye brow more than once at some of the things I've come up with. But I never stop trying new things, and even now I feel like I'm only scratching the surface of what my style could be.
Let me put it into perspective. Here's a before and after of me, up to now:
I can't say I'm "complete" as far as style, but I'd say I've come a long way. I've learned that hair is your second face- but I'll cover that in another post, fit is very important, and the colour&material of a piece of clothing can make all the difference. I can elaborate on these things and add if anyone is interested, but my point is: Don't be afraid to be yourself. I was never scared to dress the way I wanted, and I would constantly try new things. I did have the privilege of knowing some talented people who greatly helped me learn what was right for me, but ultimately I chose what I put on my back.
People can tell the difference between what's you, and when you're trying to be something you're not. Do what feels right, and learn from those around you. I've tried baggy clothes gangster, super skinny jeans&tight t shirt wearing indie kid, all-black-spikes&chains-wearing emo, putting stripes and designs on my clothes with coloured duct tape, and probably other phases you'd relate to. I feel like, after I've learned more about fashion and worked in the industry for a while, there's been lots of growth as far as my personal style and just everything I do. Style is an extension of you. If you know what style looks good on you, it bleeds into the rest of your life. You feel more confident and ready to take on other challenges. Try it today!
All photography done by Joffery Hollsworth (except pictures of me)